Throughout the course of my life I have only dated women around my age twice. Of the other relationships, 30% of them were much older than me and 70% were much younger. Though it may appear that I have some sort of desire for younger women, the truth is that my relationship history was actually more determined by the opposite. It seemed that younger women were much more interested in me, whereas older women were not.
When I was 19, I couldn’t get laid if I had a million dollars and lived in a whore house. In fact, if I were to create a linear chart of my dating experiences, it peaked dramatically in my late twenties. It seemed the older I got, the more appealing I had become. And, more often than not it was younger women who were knocking on the door. I didn’t go to college right after high school like most young adults, I went in my late twenties. It was mind boggling to me how often young girls were interested in me.
There is nothing sexier than a college girl right in the prime of her young adult life. She smells good all the time. She dresses to impress, lotions her legs, shaves between them and her lips look soft and full naturally without lipstick. The whole campus was crawling with these young, hot, hard bodies walking around in tight jeans and cut-off shirts revealing their flush flat hourglass shaped tummy’s. Everywhere I looked it was perky firm breasts, porcelain doll faces and long supple hair. It was very apparent to me right off the bat why 90% of the porn sites on the web entirely revolve their content around college age girls. College girls are intelligent, driven, beautiful, healthy and completely unjaded. However, despite having everything in the world going for them, I feel bad for them. Most often these young hot college girls are completely surrounded by a bunch of males that act like retarded narcissistic immature clowns.
Somebody told me once that the average woman is mentally 5 years older than her age, while the average man is mentally 5 years younger than his. Where they got those facts, I have no idea. Though it is entirely unsubstantiated and lacks any factual science behind it, I will say that it does seem to be kind of accurate to me. While most of these 20 year old girls are thinking about careers, marriage and financial savings, most of their male counterparts are thinking about smoking weed and playing Call of Duty. In college, I could take a girl out on a date in a car I paid for, while most of my male competition was either driving their mom’s Subaru or trying to score “chicks” on a skateboard.
Many younger guys have no confidence because they are simply not comfortable in their own skin yet. Younger women want to be approached by a man who isn’t afraid to let them know they want them and older men are not scared to do this. Younger women want intelligent conversation. Older men have the experience to speak about many topics and know how to listen. Older men have read literature, whereas younger guys have only read internet memes and comic books. Older men don’t just ignore her and her feelings like most self-absorbed young guys. Younger women don’t get much sexual pleasure with a guy who has only had one or two partners and is incapable of listening to what his partner likes. Younger women will often have fantasies or desires that younger guys are simply too immature to hear without responding in an immature judgmental fashion. Older men have had more experience, care more about pleasing their partners and are far more open to fetishes and fantasies.
In spite of all the perfectly reasonable reasons why a younger woman would want to date older men, older guys still receive a lot of shit for dating younger women. It isn’t women who have an issue though. Many older women seem to understand because, they too, often dated older men when they were younger. The flack mostly comes from two kinds of men. The first male buzzkill is what I call “The Hermit”. The Hermit is the older man, still single, who claims that dating younger women is immoral, simply because they themselves are old, lame, and lonely, have no game and couldn’t get a younger woman if they tried. The second male buzzkill is the jealous younger guy who is simply jealous that older guys are hooking up with girls their age.
What is so strange about both of these haters are that they both love to imply that older guys force, or somehow trick, these younger girls into dating them. The bottom line is that a man can only hook up with a woman who lets him, unless of course he is some demented rapist. I know in my case, the women I dated chose me, and I was merely flattered to be chosen. As for the younger guys getting jealous, I’m sorry if you’re having trouble getting women to come sit with you at your parent’s house in your bean bag chair and talk with you about your new bong. I promise you though, one day you’ll get older and realize what an idiot you currently are. One day, you’ll have confidence, experience and financial stability. And, when you do, you’ll be pissing off the next generation of young men by sleeping with all their crushes. Then again, maybe you’ll never grow up. In which case you will most assuredly become “The Hermit.”